Intuitive, creative, & emotionally avoidant
At your best: Open, present, grounded
At your worst: Passive, withholding, insecure
Under stress: Gets small and hides away
You process everything internally first. Your inner world feels safer than risking being truly seen, so you keep your depth to yourself.
When you're at your best: You're courageously open and deeply receptive, building genuine intimacy without losing yourself.
When anxiety takes over: You withdraw, either positioning yourself as more emotionally evolved (using depth as a shield) or becoming overly dependent and deferring decisions to avoid responsibility.
Personal growth: Share your inner world before it's fully processed. Stay open even when it's messy. Communicate directly instead of hoping others will intuit your needs.
Use the Relationship Tension Tool below to navigate relationship challenges from your best self, and the Emotion Regulation Tool to hold on to yourself while you work through difficult emotions.